Perhaps they are jealous because you have the choice to live better than they have. Here are my observations based on what I have lived and seen. We sisters must stick together and protect each other. These are things Black women NEED to hear to survive and THRIVE. If not, people eat you up and spit you out and then blame you for them hurting you.
Put on your seat belt because this will be a bumpy and ugly ride. We must be on a ruthless pursuit of our self-actualization and happiness.
When asked what the problem was, the wife went into a passionate, painful tirade listing every problem they had ever had in the years they had been married. Then just before going to bed, take the red pill with another glass of water." Man: "Exactly what's my problem, doc?
They are all asked the same question: "When you are in your casket, and friends and family are mourning over you, what would you like to hear them say about you?
" To which he replied, "I know - I already got that side." After dying in an accident, three friends go to Heaven for orientation.
My heart went out to her, even though I wasn’t all that surprised to hear she’s having this experience. She’s just one of the first Christians I’ve seen recently who has actually managed to get some traction in the discussion about the trouble so many Christians are having with their search for marriage partners.
The problem isn’t about anyone’s weight so much as it is about a religion that is selling mixed messages and hugely unhelpful beliefs and teachings to its overly-trusting adherents.